lets dig a little deeper….

26 Sep

i wanna talk about something in this blog

It’s a topic I have avoided for fear of alienating many people I am very close too

I don’t want what I say to impact relationships and friendships I have built. Nor do I want to be labeled a hypocrite…..

Im not perfect “ nobody walking this earths surface is but, work with the kid”

I wanna talk about : bareback porn

Im gonna be honest : I HAVE AVOIDED TALKING ABOUT THIS .

Two reasons :

1) I couldn’t find the words to express how I feel on the issue without tipping the scale .

2) I wasn’t really too sure my opinion on it would matter anyway.

But, now I know what I wanna say about it.

Bareback sex is a part of our community . Fact. It cannot be denied. It happens everyday all day. Read my timeline on twitter. Despite the calls and education on safer sex and getting tested there are thousands of gay/ bi men having bareback sex daily. Not just the bareback penetration. The cum swallowing too. It happens. Let’s be honest . Many people in the industry go out daily and commit these acts. In their private lives. (c’mon folks lets be real I have seen your profiles on websites DEDICATED to bareback sex hookups, and some of your a4a …. ‘anything goes” or nothing at all … same thing … your just in the bareback closet) I mean whatever the reason you get drunk and slip up , committed relationship and you have established that trust or you just don’t give a fuck and prefer raw sex to safer sex people are doing it regularly. There’s no stopping it.

Many people are blaming bareback porn companies and actors for the spread of HIV/AIDS in the industry. That’s not fair at all

I think that the issue really is about testing, honesty and accountability.

I watch bareback porn I was safer sex porn as well.

Im a whore. I love porn . If its hot , I get hard , if I get hard I jerk off, if I jerk off , I make an xtube vid ( j/k well a lil bit )

I have friends that do both. I worry about them daily. I WORRY ABOUT THEM. There’s a degree of Russian roulette to what they do on cam. Not everyone is honest. People fake AIMS test results or flat out lie about their status. Many studios don’t even bother to test their models; they just take the models word for it and are ready to go.

I always wish they were in safer sex porn but , given the current state of mainstream porn most of them are exiled to this type of porn because bareback studios and directors seem to be much more open minded to the types of men they use. Fact: bareback porn has a much wider net of diversity . So if your goal is the elimination of bareback porn … how about … maybe … I know this is a crazy idea… I know … but its so crazy it just may work … maybe start hiring a much more diverse set of models and stop ostracizing talented people in the industry ! Stop filming the same porn over and over again and give hot guys with different looks the chance to shine . Ill bet good money that if you take those same guys you have shunned and offer them a chance they’ll jump into it head on and I BET that your sites revenue increases exponentially because of it.

JUST AN IDEA

Now. A TEST IS NOT A CONDOM. It does not guarantee you wont get anything. So unless you plan on not swallowing or sucking dick. On cam . With a condom on the cock . You cant act like you are better than anyone. You are STILL at risk. And if you believe that illustrating the use of a condom during the penetration scene your as full of shit as the people you ostracize. ESPECIALLY when u are using the thinnest condom u can find stretched around the biggest cock. Put a jet black tuxedo lifestyle condom around the pinkest prick you can find . That’ll MAKE YOUR POINT. Im off topic. The enforcement of AIMS testing should be universal among all studios. Bareback, urban , kink, tranny I don’t care it should be universal with results within the last 30 days.

It doesn’t stop there . Conner Habib is right “a test is not a condom” .

But condoms aren’t 100 percent with all that we explore on camera.

Seems like there is a rapidly increasing number of models coming up positive . According to Howard of FabScout “5 boys in 2 weeks” nobody knows who those five are . I don’t care . Its not my job to know … yet. But, if they have the result and they know their status its up to them to decide what to do. They can “retire” , be “exposed “ like Mason Wyler unfairly was or … another crazy idea… TELL THE TRUTH. You would be surprised at the response you get when you openly admit to the fact your are poz. Many people are more than willing to work with you s long as you practice safer sex. They may be a bit wary . But, its better that you give that option than it later be found out that you put them at risk w/o their knowledge. Then again a lot of directors and studios tell models to lie about it now don’t they ?

This brings us to the next topic:: serosorting. This is something I was HONESTLY unaware of. Had no clue Chase Coxxx clued me into what it was . If I grasp the concept correctly it’s the pairing of partners with the same HIV/AIDS and STD statuses together instead of opposite statues, some say that this is common practice others say that it really isn’t being that most studios don’t enforce AIMS testing and so many people flat out lie.

In a interview with my buddy Gaypornfantic.com model ( and really genuinely all around AWESOME GUY) Greg York says: “ In the bareback scenes I’ve done, everyone is positive. In fact, the producers I’ve worked with don’t pair negative guys with positive guys”

LET ME BE CLEAR ON WHAT THE FUCK JUST HAPPENED.

GREG YORK JUST ADMITTED BEING HIV POSITIVE AND CONTINUING TO WORK IN THE INDUSTRY WHILE MAINTAING HIS INTEGRITY AS A PERSOIN BECAUSE HE IS HONEST ABOUT THIS FACT

GO DOWNLOAD HI SHIT GO TO HIS BLOG SEND HIM FAN MAIL BECAUSE THERE ARE ANY MAINSATREAM FAVORITES SCARED TO DO THIS. HE DESERVES A FCKING AWARD FR IT. NOBODY FORCED HIM OUT OR ANYTHING HE SAID IT HIMSELF.

I STLL BEAT OFF TO HIS VIDS TOO.

But, the kicker is that he openly endorses creosoting.:

“ I think if there’s any question about the status of two guys or if one is definitely positive and the other is definitely negative, then they should use condoms on camera.”

There you have it. Because of greg yorks vigilance of his own status, and his HONESTY ABOUT HIS STATUS… we now have serosorted scenes tat are just as hot as anything else out there. ( if I saw this coming I would have interviewed him myself but, I hooked them up instead DAMNIT!)

Let me wrap this up. ( haha funny .. I made a joke)

As a writer I maintain my integrity on one principle: never bring up any issue if u cannot or will not offer a solution.

To me bareback porn is not the issue …

The stigma around it is.

This stigma stems from the belief that it illustrates unsafe sex and perpetuates the spread of hiv in the industry …

The solution…

Stop ostracizing positive models. Stop it.

(I say positive models because its clear that one can do bareback … then atone .. Them be featured in a safer sex PSA or work for a major studio. So its not about the models who do bareback is it? Or is there a different standard for some models … different blog different day …)

When people stop ostracizing positive models then it becomes easier to take action. When we support each other in this industry as a cohesive unit then we increase profit margins. We can then get across the safer sex messages we struggle to promote.

MAKE TESTING A STANDARD PRACTICE. When we take the step to make the act of getting tested less of a chore and more about protecting your self and the friends you film with then we are headed in a positive direction. With all models tested and being held accountable we can serosort scenes . Straight porn is all bareback because of their strict AIMS testing guidelines. We could head the same direction ( id rather not but its possible)

BE HONEST . If you are positive own it . Nobody will blame u and it doesn’t make your dick smaller or u any less hot . It just means you have to be more careful about what acts u do on camera. Do not lie.

SEROSORT. Its not the begin and end all of the spread of HIV in the industry but it’s a step in the right direction . ( yes I know .. I have a one pun per blog rule)

There you have it. My thoughts on bareback. Is it dangerous ? Right now ? Yes. Does it have to be? No. am I scared for my friends doing it? Everyday. I shouldn’t be and I just told u ALL how to fix it.

2 Responses to “lets dig a little deeper….”

  1. Drew September 26, 2010 at 6:18 pm #

    This is drewbie1985 I sent you a dm also on it, I deft agree testing should be done with bb and condom scenes a few studios that are only condom don’t test at all. I read a few models blogs that has also said in a sense don’t like like condoms are a savior do testing as well.

  2. Devon Hunter September 28, 2010 at 12:15 am #

    Hey there – I have to admit that I found it rather difficult to follow this entry… I sense that you are torn about all this to a deeper extent than you indicated here. I hear acceptance and judgment at the same time when you discuss bb, and I’m confused about your thought process. If you had to restate everything you wrote here in 20 words or less, what would you express to me about your message concerning bb/safer sex/porn/real life?

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