The longest threesome ever!

4 May

Relationships for gay men are …. Difficult … to say the very least.

After coming out a large chunk of gay men have trouble finding and forming lasting relationships that develop for more than a few minutes let alone years. There are many factors that affect us as gay men when entering relationships including sexual compatibility, experience level and experience.

One of the biggest obstacles we face as gay men is infidelity. Let’s be honest with ourselves; GAY MEN CHEAT. I think it’s the natural testosterone combined with our mastery of the anonymous hookup.  50% of being gay is who we fuck. The word is homoSEXUAL and we take the SEXUAL part very seriously among gay men.

Having faced my own challenges in relationships (including those that come along with relationships lasting 2+ years) I’m always interested in how other couples or relationships develop and overcome these obstacles.

One concept I had become acquainted with and curious about was the polyamourus relationship: Multiple partners in a closed relationship.

Imagine when you hit that 2-year mark and your bf says “Hey babe let’s have a threesome!” (We’ve all been there) but, that threesome lasts a week then, a month, then six months until you move the guy in…

That’s exactly what this Chelsea trio has done something pretty similar to that (I’m not sure of the origins of their relationship)

This definitely isn’t normal. More people seem ok with the idea of a threesome for sex and nothing else. However, this non-traditional view does circumvent issues of infidelity and allows for multiple emotional connections to be shared and nurtured in a committed way.

Check out the story below:

So what do you think? Batshit crazy or new frontier? In either case they’re pretty hot !

3 Responses to “The longest threesome ever!”

  1. thetarotman May 4, 2012 at 8:57 am #

    Angel, thanks for sharing and reposting this video. Personally, for a long time I have felt that being a part of a triad was for me; I still feel that way, even though I AM currently on a break from dating. I, for one, to not find this batshit crazy, nor do I feel this is a new frontier. Basically, I AM happy to see a great romantic relationship between (in this case) three Gay Men.

    • angelxxxcruz May 4, 2012 at 9:48 am #

      i’m inclined to agree with you. My view on relationships has always been a bit more progressive and would love to explore a triad like this myself.

      • thetarotman May 4, 2012 at 11:36 am #

        Angel, I have a feeling that you and I are not the only Gay Men who feel this way. I have been in great romances, as well as crappy ones, but the last few years the triad has drawn me very much. I have a feeling you shall not wait too long to explore your triad horizons.

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